I can’t believe it’s 2016 already, but I love this time of year. It’s such a great time to get inspired. For this year, I still want to encourage kindness with women. I want us to stop spreading hatred and cruelty among one another. It’s so sad to see this unnecessary rudeness.
One of my new mottos is “Hide the hate, Spread the love”.
I figure that you should try to conceal any negative emotions you may have, especially if they will negatively affect someone else. There already is enough hatred in this world so why not try to spread more love and make this world livable?
We need to stop comparing ourselves to other people. It’s not healthy and it won’t get us anywhere. It can be hard to not be envious or jealous, but don’t be. Women aren’t born to hate each other, or put each other down, they are taught it. I am going to make this year and every year more positive by doing what is best for me. Recently, I have reached out to women I admire. I continue to send out compliments, no matter how big or small they are, they are always appreciated. Just remember how it feels when someone says the like your outfit, your makeup, or your nail polish color. The littlest of words can change someone’s entire day. It’s all about attitude. Instead of being envious, let women inspire you. Whether it be studying abroad, traveling, being confident, whatever the reason! And let your idols be realistic. Become inspired by women locally, not what you see splattered on the magazines or Internet. Be realistic and surround yourselves with friends who are going through the same things your going through.
At the end of it all, people won’t remember if you were valedictorian. They won’t remember who you dated or how popular you were. They’ll remember what kind of person you were. Spread the love, be kind to one another, and be happy with your life. You are responsible for everything in your life. If you aren’t happy, you can change it. Life is too short to live unhappily. You have the power to do anything you wish to make you happy. Aim for the stars. You can get that degree, get that promotion, run that extra mile. It’s all up to you. This is your year girl, own it!
Happy 2016 to all you lovely people, I look forward to writing more soon.